Wednesday, October 9, 2013

The Brave Little Soul

In loving memory of our brave little soul
Joan Louise
October 9, 2011

Not too long ago in Heaven, there was a little soul who took wonder in observing the world. She especially enjoyed the love she saw there and often expressed this joy with God. One day however, the little soul was sad, for this day she saw suffering in the world. She approached God and sadly asked "Why do bad things happen, why is there suffering in the world?"

God paused for a moment and replied, "Little soul, do not be sad, for the suffering you see unlocks the love in people's hearts." The little soul was confused. "What do you mean?" she asked. God replied, "Have you not noticed the goodness and love that is the offspring of that suffering? Look at how people come together, drop their differences, and show their love and compassion for those who suffer. All their other motivations disappear and they become motivated by love alone."

The little soul began to understand and listened attentively as God continued. "The suffering soul unlocks the love in people's hearts much like the sun and rain unlock the flower within the seed. I created everyone with endless love in their heart, but unfortunately most people keep it locked up and hardly share it with anyone. They are afraid to let their love shine freely, because they are afraid of being hurt. But a suffering soul unlocks that love. I tell you this - it is the greatest miracle of all. Many souls have bravely chosen to go into the world and suffer to unlock this love - to create this miracle - for the good of all humanity."

Just then the little soul got a wonderful idea and could hardly contain herself. With her wings fluttering, bouncing up and down, the little soul excitedly replied, "I am brave, let me go! I would like to go into this world and suffer so that I can unlock the goodness and love in people's hearts! I want to create that miracle!"

God smiled and said, "You are a brave soul I know, and thus I will grant your request. But even though you are very brave, you will not be able to do this alone. I have known since the beginning of time that you would ask for this, so I have carefully selected many souls to care for you on your journey. These souls will help you create your miracle: however they will also share in your suffering. Two of these souls are most special and they will care for you, help you and suffer along with you, far beyond the others. They have already chosen a name for you."

God and the brave little soul shared a smile, and then embraced. In parting, God said, "Do not forget little soul that I will be with you always. Although you have agreed to bear the pain, you will do so through my strength. And if the time should come when you feel you have suffered enough, just say the word, think the thought and you will be healed."

Thus at that moment, the brave little soul was born into the world and through her suffering and God's strength, she unlocked the goodness and love in people's hearts. For so many people dropped their differences and came together to show their love. Priorities became properly aligned. People gave from their hearts. Those who were always too busy, found time. Many began new spiritual journeys - some regained lost faith - many came back to God. Parents hugged their children tighter. Friends and family grew closer. Old friends got together and new friendships were made. Distant families reunited and every family spent more time together. Everyone prayed. Peace and love reigned. Lives were changed forever. It was good. The world was a better place. The miracle happened. God was pleased.

The Brave Little Soul
By John Alessi

Monday, April 29, 2013

Joan's Reach has arrived!

In the midst of a challenging year...  with mounting demands and stresses...  personal, professional, national...  hurricanes, school shootings, bombings... 
 
I have not posted in a while.  I guess I have not felt the same inspiration to blog. 
 
But on the side... slowly but surely... at times intermittently...  I have been working on Joan's legacy

I guess I was waiting for the perfect time to announce it here.  When it felt legitimate.  When I had a major milestone to report. 

Or maybe I was trying to decide the best way to merge my blog with this new endeavor. 

But suddenly, unexpectedly... today... the perfect time presented itself.

I received an email from a woman that I respect greatly.  She is a mother, author, pioneer and advocate for perinatal hospice care, and she manages the primary, authoritative source for the most up to date information on perinatal hospice.  This website is used internationally.  It is the perinatal hospice source.

Today, Amy Kuebelbeck wrote me to inform me that Joan's Reach has been added to the perinatal hospice website as a resource for parents.  Joan's Reach is officially included in the list of Websites related to continuing a pregnancy.

I am honored and grateful to be included.

Most of all, it is a testament to the Impact of One Life.  Something that never would have been possible if not for our daughter, Joan.  Proof of how far one little, brief life can reach.  And how much good can be born out of the most challenging of situations.  Every life is valuable, and creates more ripples that we can imagine.

What better time to announce Joan's Reach.  Though there is still much work to do.  We have arrived!